One of the old Scottish tales of this time of year tells about the Callieach fighting tooth and nail to retain her power and to continue the rule of winter. Of course, time turns on and winter must eventually fade and yield its power to the coming spring. Seasons must change in their never ending cycle and so must we. Imbolc is the perfect time to do a working to help yourself see what you are desperately hanging onto, what things whose time has come you cling to. We've all had times when we've held onto an idea that's died - the ideal that can never be achieved, the job that wouldn't really make you happy, the untenable relationship, etc. It's hard to let go of something you've made precious, sometimes its so hard you can't even see it.
Spell To See
Find a private place where you won't be disturbed. Bring a small black candle, some incense (I prefer dragon's blood or copal), and a small bowl of water (the bowl should be reflective - either silver or black, and should have only a cup or so of water in it).
Begin by turning of the lights in the room. Cast a circle if you wish (lately I've been doing most of my work without one) and light your incense. If you have a particular deity or powers that you work with, ask it/them to help.
Sit down in front of your altar. Make yourself comfortable enough that you can sit for a while, but not so comfortable that you'll get drowsy (I find it helpful to keep the room just a bit colder than normal). Think for a few minutes about what you really want to accomplish. Think about what you're actively doing to make that happen. Out loud, say exactly what you're trying to do and state that you want to see the situation clearly and want to really SEE the effects of your actions and whether or not they're actually doing what you want them to. Speak from the heart. The most important thing is that you say what you really mean and that there's some emotional weight behind it.
Light your candle and place it somewhere where it will indirectly light your bowl of water (you shouldn't be able to see the candle flame when you look in the bowl). Hold your hands over the bowl of water and concentrate on your goal.
Say, "Dark waters help me to see. Show me the things that are hidden from me."
Open your mind and spend 5-10 minutes gazing into the water. Pay attention to any shapes you see in the water and any ideas that come into your mind. I find it helpful to cup my hands around, but not quite touching, the bowl.
After a few minutes you should get the sense of completion, that you've gotten all that you're going to get from the experience. Then drink the water.
Give thanks to anything you've called on and make some small offering to the powers that be (I like to reserve just a bit of the scrying water with a drop or two of essential oil added for this).
You might not get a clear answer right during the spell itself, but fragments should float to the top of your mind over the next few days.
Memories of Imbolcs past.